Gabby Windey and Robby Hoffman Are Married! Inside Their Relationship Timeline

Fans who dwell in Bachelor Nation first met Gabby Windey on The Bachelor, vying for the heart of Clayton Echard. Gabby made it to the final three, and later, the former nurse and Rachel Recchia were selected to co-lead for Season 19 of The Bachelorette.

During her season, Gabby got engaged to Erich Schwer but the couple broke up less than two months after the finale aired.

In August 2023, Gabby came out during an appearance on The View and later revealed she was dating comedian and TV writer Robby Hoffman.

The couple has been together ever since, and in January 2025, they took their relationship to the next level. Want to know more? Here's a look at their relationship timeline!

Robby and Gabby's first meeting was pure chance in the spring of 2023 at a bar, where they hit it off almost instantly. Robby joked that it was actually the woman Gabby came with who caught her attention first.

"This [lesbian], like me, started to look at me, and I thought [she would] maybe hit on me, like another 'butch-y type [person].' I'm not gay like that, but she was there with Gabby," Robby said during an episode of her Too Far podcast. "So, I go, 'Never mind you. Who's this?' And she said it's The Bachelor something, and I go, 'The Bachelor's gay?'"

They exchanged numbers, set up a date, and things quickly grew serious. Robby fell hard, saying, "I knew 13 days in."

The couple went public with their relationship in August 2023, and their love for each other was undeniable. In fact, it's quite difficult to find a photo of the two together where they aren't touching! On Gabby's podcast, they opened up about their relationship, with Gabby sharing that Robby makes her feel truly seen.

In an April 2024 interview with the Bachelor Nation website, Gabby and Robby opened up about their romance. Robby proudly said, "I got the final rose. People wondering what [a queer Bachelorette is] going to look like... and this is it."

While they said they plan on living together, Robby joked that their pets are the reason it hadn't happened yet, to which Gabby added, "I think that's the one thing she's clinging onto to make excuses!"

On May 1, 2024, Gabby took to Instagram to celebrate her first anniversary with Robby.

"Happy anniversary baby!!!," Gabby wrote in the caption, sharing a carousel of photos with Robby. "In just one year, you've given me the world and taught me all the ways [in] which love can heal."

She continued, "Now I can't imagine ever going a year without you. I love you, baby, it's just the beginning!!"

In September 2024, Gabby Windey and Robby Hoffman officially moved in together! Gabby shared the exciting news with People, revealing that living with Robby brings "a high level of intimacy that I just love."

"It's been really great because now it's a deeper level of knowing someone, which I think is the real gift," she said. "I was so nervous not to have alone time, but my home is with her."

On Wednesday, March 5, Gabby Windey revealed on Instagram that she and Robby Hoffman are married! The couple secretly wed in a 20-minute ceremony in Las Vegas on Jan. 11, 2025, after evacuating Los Angeles due to the wildfires.

"We had just evacuated from the fires. Literally cue Rihanna, 'We found love in a hopeless place,'" Gabby shared with Cosmopolitan. "What better time to get married than right now? Because if the world is ending, we want to be with each other."

Gabby posted several behind-the-scenes photos and videos from their wedding, which she told Cosmopolitan cost just $799. The images featured their wedding kiss in front of a white flower arch and the couple cuddling during and after the ceremony.

Gabby wore a lacy white dress and held a bouquet of red roses as Robby waited for her at the altar in a white shirt and slacks. They danced together after saying their vows, and Robby even broke a vase to symbolize the fragility of marriage.

Gabby captioned her wedding photos, "Husband and wife!!"

Gabby also shared the special moment when Robby proposed with a crossword puzzle on her phone that spelled out, "Will you marry me, Gabby?" They were "engaged for a day" before they tied the knot!

"It was the best wedding I've ever been to," Robby said, with Gabby adding, "It was literally the best night of my life. We were dancing, taking pictures… It was the best. In a weird way, it was giving Bachelor because there were roses everywhere."

"I never envisioned my wedding as a kid or anything, but that's part of what made this feel so right. Actually being there and feeling it, it was so us," she added.