"Are We on the Same Level?" — Woman Says She Asks to See Guys' Bank Accounts on First Date

Among the many awkward moments on a first date, none trump the moment that the bill arrives. As a society we've yet to decide who puts their card down. Some say that the man should pay on a first date. Others say it should be split 50/50 and some think it should be the person who asked the other out.

Well, one female podcast host woman doesn't seem to care who pays the bill as much as she cares what her date's finances look like. In fact, she reveals the big question that she has asked on first dates — and TikTok users seem to have some thoughts on it.

Podcaster and media personality Sofia Franklyn revealed on an episode of her podcast Sofia with an F that she has previously asked men on the first date for a look at their bank account.

"I'm not joking. I have asked the last three dudes that I've dated for their bank account info on their first date," she said to her guest, digital creator Leo Skepi.

Fortunately, Leo wasn't here to argue. "I don't judge people's actions. I look at the intention behind it. So like why do you ask for that?" he asked.

"Because I only want to date a wealthy guy who has money," she responded.

"Valid. So you're getting straight to the point," Leo said.

Sofia then said: "I think you know, I have a job. I'm very successful. So I think I have every f------ right to be like 'hi are we on the same level or am I wasting my time?'"

Naturally, this 25-second clip sent the internet into a tizzy. "Could have a billion dollars, if she asks this I’m leaving and not paying for the date lol," wrote one man in the comment section.

"This…. This can’t be real?" questioned another woman.

And some men made some disparaging remarks about Sofia, with one claiming "that voice alone will have any guy running for the door."

A fourth remarked: "Not to judge. My only question is how is that working out and what are the results."

However, there were a few folks in the comment section that supported Sofia's first-date question. One comment read: "Absolutely 300 percent agree! You deserve to have a man on the same level as you!"

Given the strict financial standards that Sofia has for her first dates, many might feel inclined to take a look at what her bank account looks like.

According to Celebrity Net Worth, Sofia is estimated to have a net worth of $500K. Born in Utah, she graduated from the University of Utah and then worked for a finance firm. It wasn't in 2018 that she rose to fame as co-host of the podcast Call Her Daddy.

However, interestingly enough, Sofia ended up leaving the podcast after she and co-host Alex Cooper were offered a new podcast contract that she allegedly didn't agree with. Perhaps it had to do with the salary? Shortly after, Sofia exited and started Sofia with an F.